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| WRITERS |
Whenever someone reveals
something truthful about themselves, elements of exhibitionism
and vulnerability are present. Along with allowing others to
learn from your experience, the writing process unveils a certain
insight of self and an irrefutable recorded memory to be revisited
over a lifetime. It takes courage to look at yourself, and to
let others see your self-image.
Because we wanted the assurance of true personal accounts, each
writer is either known directly or was recommended through personal
or professional acquaintance. Our fourteen writers came from
the first twenty-five people approached who said they had experienced
a threesome. Though a variety of perspectives were sought, all
stories submitted were accepted. And except to ensure that all
four gender variations were depicted, the range and balance
of the stories occurred without any pre-intended direction.
We asked each writer: Why did you
do a threesome? Tell us about the sex, but also, how it affected
you sexually and in your personal life. Tell your story in
the way you feel most comfortable.
Seven men and seven women submitted their
stories with humor and depth, straightforwardness and lyricism.
Six are previously published writers. Ten stories are written
in the first person, two are in the second person, and two
in the third person. One was written from the other genders
point of view, and three were first verbally submitted and
written by an editor or their partner. Our contributors range
in age from late twenties to early sixties. Three reside in
New England, six hail from the Mid-Atlantic, one from California,
two from the Midwest, and two have Floridian sand in their
veins.
Each of the stories is original, and first
published in this anthology. To protect the privacy of the
writers and their partners, most of the characters names
and some identifiers in the stories were changed, and each
writer had the option of using a pseudonym or real name for
authorship. Our stories are not necessarily a demographic
representation of threesomes, but rather a meaningful and
illustrative collection.
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The beauty of the human form is especially
provocative when grouped together in threes. Our nude images,
were created during two studio and four casual shoots, through
the distinctive eyes of our six photographers. The tri-themed
landscape and object-focused works were separately shot by
our two book designer-photographers.
Each of our model sessions was a unique collaboration with
its own approach and momentum. Yet for every one of us, though
the nudity quickly felt natural, there was both a reverent
innocence and inspiring awe.
Over 30 people posed for this book. Models for five of the
shoots reside in Philadelphia, New York, South Jersey, Wilmington
and Baltimore. Ranging in background from people answering
our on-air radio invitations to modern dancers, gymnasts and
photography students, they demonstrated as amazing a skill
in choreography, as they did in their physicality and presence.
Our first shoot was a test-run in Los Angeles with friends
graciously posing, thanks to Julios Mar Vista house,
Johns enticing cooking, and quite a few good bottles
of wine. After about 15 minutes in front of the lens, nude
bodies entwined under umbrella-lit ambience in the transformed
art-deco living room, someone proclaimed what the rest of
us thought, Wow, this is like Hollywood. Well,
we were just 10 miles away.
Philip Isaiah Katz, New Hope, PA, studied under Ansel
Adams, specializes in art, sports and editorial photography,
and maintains an international corporate clientelle. Nicole DeGeorge, New York, is also a model,
and often works in front of and behind the camera at the same
time. Her recent showings have been at Asbury Arts in Asbury
Park, NJ and a group show Seven in New York. Scott
Miller is a Los Angeles fashion photographer. Jason
Laub, Philadelphia, works as a videographer, photographer
and photo editor. Justin Mongroo, Philadelphia, is
a fine art and commercial
photograher, playing the fine game of reality
in his work and in his life. Sandra C. Davis, Burlington,
NJ, is a photography educator. Her landscape images have exhibited
nationally. Christine Ott, Merchantville, NJ, is a
photo hobbyist, and some of her photos have appeared in various
New Jersey newspapers and magazines. The second of our eighth photographers, due to a court order settlement, revoked our ability to credit his/her name and images on this website.
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In III, a picture accompanies at least every
thousand words. Selecting, preparing, and designing the visuals
to complement the text required versatility and re-inventiveness.
Our goal for the book design was to create a gutsy, yet sophisticated
and welcoming feel. Being a self-publish, the project was
produced during everyones seperate time availabilities.
It took two years, under many constraints and transitions
(including the placement of 63 new images from that of the
galley to the limited edition), to coordinate our teams
efforts.
Christine Ott, cover and limited edition book designer,
is a freelance graphic artist and writer. Sandra C. Davis,
galley book designer, co-designed and edited B-Side Magazine
for over a decade. Jason Laub, galley photo editor,
prepared many of the images, including the selection for our
final cover choice. Bob Pennise, Point Pleasant, PA,
designed our company logo for its first use in this book.
Matt Powers, Los Angeles, and Philadelphians Christopher
P. Jordan, Meredith Laub and Arthur Y. Wendler,
each contributed independently to the books design.
WEB DESIGN
We first launched our website www.sexualtriads.com in January
2002, renamed the site www.threesomebook.com
in early 2004, closed the site on October 2004 due to our
legal dispute and reappeared again in our current incarnation
November 2005. Our webmasters have given of themselves when
ever they could find time, even though there often there was
no quarantee of compensation.
Dan Swift, has diligently worked our site since December
2002. Masha Levina, juggled her work for our transitional
site, in between raising her baby and three dogs. Matt
Powers and Ryan Packeb got us started in 2001 with
prototype marketing pages on angelfire.com
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| EDITING & RESEARCH |
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Maintaining the integrity of each writers
voice and intent is paramount to the openness that this project
values. Thus, copyediting was an integrated process nvolving
the writers active participation and final agreement.
Since understanding is essential to our premise for sexual
exploration, inclusion of the number threes cultural
significance throughout the book further extended the vision
of our inquiry.
Laura Heffernan, copy editor, is a doctoral candidate
in English at the University of Pennsylvania. Kate Newell,
copy editor, is a doctoral candidate in English at the University
of Delaware. Anne Thalheimer, support, received her
doctorate in English at the University of Delaware. Aldona
Middlesworth, support, is a Visiting Assistant Professor
of Intellectual Heritage at Temple University. Sarah Hayford,
proofreader, is a doctoral candidate in demography at the
University of Pennsylvania. Karen OSullivan,
proofreader, has a BA in liberal arts from Trenton State College,
NJ.
PROJECT DIRECTION
Crystal Syben Haidl, editor and publisher, is a community
project activist. Her story, Sway of the Ride
is included in this book, and she posed in the photos shown
on pages 29, 54, 99, 108, 109, 137, 143, 144, 149, 164, 188,
199, and 210.
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